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Scott and Tracey Drever
The Memory Box is a fantastic idea; it has brought so much comfort to Tracey & me after the stillbirth of our precious son Daniel Brian. The Memory Box is in our bedroom and at anytime we are able to look at the photos, footprints, lock of hair and other mementos of our son Daniel. This has helped us enormously to come to terms with our tragic loss and will continue to do so in the years to come
Scott & Tracey Drever
We received a Memory Box which meant so much to us both and feel that giving these boxes to parents is a very good idea and very comforting to have.
When I lost my little Jack in July 2015 I never got any photos of him. I was really scared while in labour as I lost him at 17 weeks and I had no idea how he would look or how developed he would be. I didn't know what to expect. However, I did ask to see him. He was so beautiful and perfect. I didn't even think about taking any photos, the midwife never mentioned it either. There was no mention of taking hand and footprints either. We were handed the memory box just as we were leaving the hospital, so didn't even know there was a little ink kit inside the box. I was devastated, I still am. I wouldn't like anyone else to feel the same so think it's really important that hospital staff know just how much it matters to parents. It's a lifetime of hurt, guilt and regrets as well as dealing with the grief.
Our twin’s hearts stopped around eight weeks, Simba helped so much by acknowledging then as babies who had died, we didn't get far in our journey with them, no happy scans, no kicks, no cuddles, having the memory box made them real, they existed and they are remembered for that I'll be forever grateful.
Baby Jack's parents
The memory box was the beginning of Richard and myself capturing those important memories of Baby Jack, it also meant as grieving parents we weren't leaving the hospital with empty arms but a important link to Jack.
We will always treasure Finlay’s Memory Box, his little hand and footprints, his blanket of love and our pictures of him. He will always be part of our lives, but thanks to SiMBA we have something tangible to remind ourselves of him, something we can look at, something we can touch.
Your charity made the short time with my little baby so precious and the beautiful box I went home with means the world to me. You made it possible for me to say goodbye to my baby properly. It was priceless.
Friend of SiMBA
Thank you so much for helping my sister, her husband, me and our family and all the other people who have lost their babies in this awful way by gifting the Memory Box.
Julian and Phil Johnson
It’s a month and a day since the tragic and unexpected stillbirth of our first son, Finlay. His heart was beating as he made his arrival. At 25 weeks, though, it was too early for him to survive.
Our pregnancy was high risk, but just two hours earlier we could never have imagined or prepared ourselves for what would, suddenly, become the saddest moment of our lives.. So many emotions – shock, confusion, devastation and disbelief – went through our minds that Sunday evening that it was impossible to take it all in or think straight. That is where SiMBA came in.
We will always treasure Finlay’s Memory Box, his little hand and foot prints, his blanket of love and our pictures of him. He will always be part of our lives, but thanks to SiMBA we have something tangible to remind ourselves of him, something we can look at, something we can touch.
We spent two nights in one of SiMBA’s family rooms, bonding with our son and spending invaluable time getting to know him. The information booklet has been very helpful and we look forward to adding a leaf for Finlay to SiMBA’s tree of tranquillity so that we can visit him from time to time.
For all of this we will forever be grateful to the SiMBA team and to those whose donations, time and effort make it all possible.
Instead of flowers for Finlay’s funeral, we asked friends and family to make a donation to SiMBA instead. We understand a total of £190 has been handed in and donated online. Please find enclosed another two cheques totalling £400. Kind regards
Juliane and Phil Johnson
Andy Best and Yvonne Lees
The following letter was received from the parents of a beautiful baby boy called Josh Best and this is the reason why the Memory Box appeal is so important.
As discussed on the telephone, please find enclosed a cheque for £1000 which is to be donated to the Simpson’s Memory Box Appeal. This money was raised by friends and family following the loss of our baby boy, Josh, in September 2005. Following our loss the staff at Simpson’s were wonderful. Small things, like the Memory Box, helped make us feel that we were not alone. If this money eases the pain of other families who end up in a situation like ours, then it will have made a difference…
Andy and Yvonne have generously shared their story and welcome you to read about Josh at: www.joshbest.blogspot.com
Andy Best & Yvonne Lee
Steph and Gary
In November 2005 we discovered we were having identical twins. We found out in December they were boys, we were so excited, we already have a little girl, Evie, imagine another two little ones to run around, we couldn’t believe our luck, having twins is so very special, especially identical twins. We had to attend the twin’s clinic at Simpson’s for a weekly scan just to check on how things were progressing, we decided with the obstetrician that we would have the twins delivered by Cesarean section at 36 weeks. We went to the hospital for our scan at 35 weeks; we were so excited our boys would be here the following week. Very sadly our scan revealed that one of the boys had died. We had an emergency Ceserean section to deliver the boys, Hamish first then Jack. Hamish had got his cord wrapped around his neck; Jack was fine weighing in at a healthy 5lb 8oz.
That time is all a bit of a blur, we don’t really remember very much. What we do remember is that the staff at the hospital were amazing. We had consistent midwifery care and it was one of the midwives who first introduced us to our Memory Box. We did not know at that time how valuable our little box would be to us, it has hand and footprints, photographs and a lock of hair of our darling little boy. We have also placed cards and poems people have given us as keep sakes within the box. We cannot thank the Simba Team enough for giving us this little precious box, it sits in our bedroom and we can see our little boy whenever we need to, it is there for our children and our family and friends, it is priceless. Losing a child is unimaginable; it is something no one should have to endure. We do not know what we would do if we didn’t have our Memory Box, thank you.